My word for 2020:
INTENTIONAL
definition: "done or made or performed with purpose and intent" (vocabulary.com)
I want to be intentional this year in my relationship with God, with everyone else, forgiveness, humility, my time, learning, and plans.
What I am doing (am doing, not going to do) to implement this is easy, believe it or not., so this will be a short read. Also, this is not a New Year's Resolution. Note-the method is simple, but maintaining the impetus to be intentional? Not so much. So, I am not trivializing it. I'm sure my method will evolve, but for now...
When I have any kind of negative response to any task, whether work, relational, or personal, I stop and ask myself, Are you being intentional? Or I just say Be intentional.
It means I need to get up and do it-that workout, that email, that job. Or get on the phone and say it, or get my heart attitude right and handle my relationship moves with love, decisively.
A short read, as promised!
#intentional #twentytwenty #Godfirst #stopnegativity #endprocrastination #productivity #purpose
Friday, January 10, 2020
Saturday, December 7, 2019
My Christmas Blog Post
In recent years I've been
struggling with celebrating Christmas. I love so many things and there's so
much Christmas linked sentimentally or faithfully constructed into my very
core.
Over time, by learning and
searching, I discovered some building materials and I think it’s time to
reconstruct.
1) I have outgrown the
Baby-Jesus-in-a-manger warm fuzzy. I treasure the beauty, but there’s more
there, there.
2) I have a track record of downplaying the Santa/commercial element having decided it was way, way, overblown in our culture to the point of replacing Jesus, ironically without Whom there would be no Christmas.
3) I cringe at the dearth of Christmas faith factors in our culture’s “Christmas Season” and shake my head at how instead it’s an excuse sometimes to do things that are—how can I say this—sinful.
4) Some things I always loved - trees and other heirloom traditions - have had roots in paganism. My strategy thus far has been to infuse them with meaning from the real Christmas.
5) I’ve learned about some neglected Biblical holidays I never learned to celebrate and now wonder if more emphasis needs to go there instead. More learning is needed. Potential exists for a big overhaul.
2) I have a track record of downplaying the Santa/commercial element having decided it was way, way, overblown in our culture to the point of replacing Jesus, ironically without Whom there would be no Christmas.
3) I cringe at the dearth of Christmas faith factors in our culture’s “Christmas Season” and shake my head at how instead it’s an excuse sometimes to do things that are—how can I say this—sinful.
4) Some things I always loved - trees and other heirloom traditions - have had roots in paganism. My strategy thus far has been to infuse them with meaning from the real Christmas.
5) I’ve learned about some neglected Biblical holidays I never learned to celebrate and now wonder if more emphasis needs to go there instead. More learning is needed. Potential exists for a big overhaul.
So, I've been trying to assemble and reassemble my approach and I feel like I'm
forever falling short. How can I embrace all that I grew up on for Christmas
and say it still has meaning? Jesus Christ, the Namesake of the Holiday, came
to bring salvation, not by His arrival into the world of itself, but through an event many
years after His birth. That event's mention is mysteriously lacking inclusion in Christmas
traditions and weighted with emotional polarity to the Joy of Christmas: Jesus’
death on the cross.
But here I am again. I happen
to be getting another Christmas newsletter (and this post) together thereby striking
up my internal Christmas orchestra. In the back of my mind is a compulsory list
of Holiday To-Dos starting with “Get the Christmas boxes out of storage”. And
hovering in my mind is the memory my family who loved Christmas dearly, and passed
all their love of the season on to me. It almost feels “wrong” to
reinvent my approach to celebrating.
So I'm questioning. Why do people celebrate? Sentimental reasons, it’s fun, (but also work), it
brightens up gloomy colorless winter, and it unites us together with all
the other celebrators whether or not they even acknowledge Jesus as Lord, in
some kind of brotherhood-of-man feel-good way that may be just an illusion.
Still, doesn’t it warm us to drive by strangers’ houses and see those colorful
lights? To hear carolers at the mall? To be at once, overwhelmed and still
impressed with all the massive, endless hustle-bustle big-deal being made and
know it started when my Savior was born? Do you wonder, as I do, and silently
hope there is a glimmer there, just a tiny one that maybe, maybe, everyone
knows deep down there is a Greater One Who is the at the foundation of this
cavalcade of stuff we do to celebrate Christmas?
Thursday, September 5, 2019
Today I'm celebrating a normal post Hurricane Dorian day!
My Celebration Action will be:
- spending 10 minutes on my porch watching the birds and enjoying the view. (I put the porch furniture back out this morning, along with the bird feeders, flags, and little decorative stuff.)
- Donating to Bahamas relief
Wednesday, September 4, 2019
What Are You Going To Celebrate Today?
A little over a week ago I was inspired. I put a reminder on my phone calendar that says, “What are you going to
celebrate today?” I set it to repeat daily. I’m calling it Celebrate Something.
I got this idea one morning thinking about my birthday approaching, and
how when we're young we look forward to celebrating birthdays. Even when we're
older we look forward to dinner out or special plans. I thought, ‘Why can't we
celebrate something every day and make something fun out of it?’ It seemed
like a capital idea! This could be a way to spark encouragement and infuse meaning
into every day!
Some of the things I have chosen to celebrate include: positive character attributes, long-distance planning/co-planning of four parties, learning
to use a zero-turn lawn mower, progress on a home improvement project, good
news from a doctor, dog and cat pets feeling better without going to the vet, my
last day of being fifty-something, my actual birthday of course, having home
church when our church’s services were cancelled due to weather, and Hurricane
Dorians’s downgrades.
Once I pick Something to Celebrate, I decide on a
Celebration Action. I made a rule to avoid things that cost money or edible
treats for obvious reasons. My Celebration Actions have included: scrapbooking (of course!), making plans for a future fun event, doing techy/geeky stuff that doesn’t sound
like fun to most people, and allowing myself some comp time when my day runs amok.
I had one food treat, (other than my birthday) which was a bacon, egg and cheese
croissant!
This has all the attributes of a God thing, does it not? I
am giving Him the glory for this super great idea.
Try it! There is cause for rejoicing! #RejoiceClub
PS - Ideas for celebrating in free, creative ways that do not involve eating can be found online in articles like this, "23 Ways to Treat Yo'Self Without Buying or Eating Anything" on YesAndYes.org:
You're welcome.😁
Monday, October 1, 2018
Those Were the Days - NOT!
This is quite a condensed version, but feel free to ask me questions.
- Mary Ann Stein Raulerson
Thursday, July 12, 2018
My Epiphany Experience
When I suddenly notice what has forever
been before me like a towering monument of truth, I am having an Epiphany. I am
happy to announce, I Am Free! I am free of compulsion to model my life after my
former vision of Success. How did this happen?
I have been guilty of borrowing someone
else’s playbook to fulfill my dreams, hence obstructing my own vision. A series
of recent, unrelated distressing events led to my epiphany experience. My day-to-day took on some burdensome alterations and my time was eaten up by these intrusions. I went
for weeks without “normal life”. I was not
aware that these circumstances removed me from my misplaced ambitions and that
my values were evolving—until the circumstances ended. Now I see how God truly
does work all things for my good, (I am a Christian and that is a paraphrased excerpt
from my favorite Bible verse, Romans 8:28), even things that for the present,
seem to be ruining plans and taking me off the rails.
Lessons Learned:
·
First, do not borrow other people’s playbooks no
matter how much I admire them, how successful they are or how convenient it is.
·
Query my plans, hopes dreams. Am I trying to
please someone, impress, make myself more of something, make myself into
something? Is my self esteem involved? There are plenty of other questions to
prayerfully consider.
·
Know that even prayer doesn’t always prevent a
detour on the way to the answer. In my
case I think the answer to the prayer was the detour. It reminds me of a lesson
from a childhood favorite. In the film, The
Wizard of Oz, Glenda the Good Witch of the North allowed Dorothy to travel
to Oz to use the power she already had in the ruby slippers. Glenda knew that the
treacherous detour allowed Dorothy to realize there is no place like home. Detours
can yield a lot of priceless learning.
·
Do not do something just because I can.
·
Take cues from those closest and most
supportive.
·
When a light-up-the-sky moment occurs, take
note. A light-up-the-sky moment is one that causes a brightening in emotions, a
lightening of the load, inspiration and joy. Drop what I am doing and take note
immediately. Follow and track like I am on a Treasure Hunt.
Sunday, January 7, 2018
Put a Wreath On The Door
So here it is January 7 and my Christmas tree is still up. I've been
looking at it and thinking, and I just decided to keep it up a while longer. For
years I used to keep the tree up until Epiphany, January 6. That was tradition
and I think I’ll revive it. Epiphany, for anyone who may not be familiar with
it is the day to commemorate the visit to the Christ Child by the wise men from
the East. It's the last official calendar day for Christmas holy days.
Looking at my tree, I also hesitated to take it down because
of its presence. What else can I use to fill up that space where the twinkling
colorful lit grandeur of my tree was? And it is a three-dimensional scrapbook,
with mementos and dated ornaments galore.
So what to do? Is there still a reason to be festive,
celebrate and be merry? I sure hope so. It can’t just end with the last piece
of décor being packed away. So I will FIND reasons to celebrate, some that aren’t
dependent on a calendar or a season. There may be no more tree, but I will hang
a wreath on my door and celebrate!
P.S. I'm leaning toward a rag wreath. I have an old wreath form, fabric scraps are easy to come by and I am sure I can find a way to add some meaning and significance to each scrap - sort of like a quilt!
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